Ms Soh Lai Mui brought up the idea of assisted living public housing options for people with disabilities (Extend assisted living option to people with disabilities, Feb 17). “What if we pass on? What will happen to our special child?” are questions that are always at the back of the minds of these parents – it’s an unspoken stress/fear that we have. Putting my daughter, who has a mild intellectual disability, into institutional care will be quite unnerving for her because she may be fearful of those who are severely disabled. Being vulnerable and easily taken advantage of, special needs people may face less understanding and tolerance from others. Having my daughter in a housing project with some form of security, maintenance, support and nursing care, and having similar people of special needs around her, will be more appropriate. If Ms Soh’s proposed assisted living public housing options were to materialise, a big burden would be lifted off parents of children with special needs, and they will feel more at ease.... Continue Reading